Hi Renee,

I recently met a woman who I think is the woman of my dreams. I'm not sure if she likes me back and I am very shy and afraid that she'll say no. Do you have any tips on making myself more charming?

Please Help

Hey Shy Guy,

If this woman is the "woman of your dreams," take a risk and call her. Don't wait -- time is a wasting! Women enjoy a man in pursuit and you'll know if she is interested by the tone of her voice when you call. If she says "no," at least you won't be driving yourself nuts over a fantasy!

You can always enhance your charm by learning the unique communication styles of this special woman! What does she enjoy doing in her spare time? What activities does she enjoy? Become a good listener -- then use her answers to become the "Man with a Plan" and ask her to join you on your next rendezvous.

Charm is something that comes with being secure in your own skin. What are your best assets? Why would you be a good man for her? Now go confidently in the direction of your desires.

Renee

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